The Best Way to Encourage Yourself

Have you ever found yourself in a difficult situation, feeling discouraged with nowhere to turn? Life can be challenging, and unexpected surprises can leave us feeling alone, hopeless, and depressed. Learning to encourage yourself is essential in such moments of despair and struggle. There are things that you cannot share with anybody. This article will explore the best way to boost your spirit and overcome discouragement. We must trust God and focus on the power of faith, positivity, and self-reflection. 

1. Seeking Solace in Prayer

In times of despair, Prayer is an effective way to help you stay encouraged and communicate with your Heavenly Father. Express the frustration and loneliness that you are facing with confidence, trusting that God hears and will respond to your prayers. Psalms 120:1 says, “I call on the Lord in my distress, and he answers me.” Therefore, take comfort in knowing that ever-present God is there when we feel hopeless.

Discipline yourself to stay in Prayer when you are discouraged, letting God’s guidance and strength anchor your life, whether you’re at work, home, or school. In addition, Psalms 46:1 encourages us to trust God in difficult times and find comfort in His presence. He also assures us that He is there to guide us and encourage our hearts.

The Bible tells us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Philippians 4:6, NIV

Moreover, this verse reminds us to rely on God’s promises for strength and courage. “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9

2. Focus on Uplifting Scripture

Look into the Bible for uplifting scriptures that will give you the encouragement to overcome obstacles in your life. When we go through the Bible, there are a lot of encouraging scriptures and people who encouraged themselves with the words. For instance, we found that King David encouraged himself in the Lord throughout his life in the Bible (1 Samuel 30:6, Psalm 139:14). Moreover, many more people encouraged themselves, such as Job, Daniel, and Jeremiah. Keep rooted in the scriptures, recognizing that self-encouragement is part of the Christian journey.

3. Stay Positive-A Powerful Mindset

Maintaining a positive mindset is a powerful tool for dealing with difficult life’s challenges.   It will increase your motivation to go on in life. Surround yourself with motivational speakers and Christian music to uplift your spirit, brighten your day, and remind you of the goodness of God. Cultivating a positive attitude is a great way to reduce stress and navigate life’s difficulties. Philippians 4:13 reminds us that if we have faith in Jesus, we can handle anything that comes our way.

4. Practice Gratitude to Encourage Yourself

Gratitude is a reminder of God’s beauty and faithfulness towards us. We can develop strength through practicing gratitude by journaling things we are thankful for. Reminding ourselves of God’s blessings can empower us to be stronger and face adversity with resilience. Thankfulness allows us to see the light when life seems hopeless. So, we need to be grateful because of God’s grace and mercy. Maya Angelou writes, “When you have an attitude of gratitude you wake up saying thank you.” Be grateful to God for everything he has done in your life.

5. Self-Affirmation – You are Worthy

Affirm your worthiness, that you are God’s creator, and that you are loved. Speak positive affirmations, such as “I can do it because God is on my side.” Understand and embrace your uniqueness, believing in your ability to achieve anything with a positive mindset and God’s help.

The words that come from your mouth can have the power of life and death. Always speak positive words to encourage yourself. Be careful what comes out of your mouth; do your best to speak positively into your life. Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” Let your words be wise even in the moment of despair.

6. Exercise – Boosting Physical and Mental Well-being

Engaging in physical activity is a powerful way to encourage yourself, especially when you feel alone. Take a walk outside in the fresh air and clear your mind. It will also boost your energy and confidence. Regular exercise contributes to better sleep, which is vital for overall physical and emotional health.

When you make physical activity a part of your routine, you enhance your physical health and your mental fortitude. As John F. Kennedy said, “Physical fitness is not only one of the most important keys to a healthy body, it is the basis of dynamic and creative intellectual activity.” 

7. Prioritize Quality Sleep

Sleeping is essential for human beings. Recognize the importance of quality sleep for productivity and emotional well-being. When you deprive yourself of sleep, you can experience fatigue, mood changes, and irritability. Positively, a good night’s sleep provides an energized body, a clear mind, and allows the body to function efficiently.

Taking steps to encourage healthy sleep habits is key to maintaining your well-being. According to an article published on HealthySD.gov., “A number of aspects of your health and quality of life are linked to sleep, and these aspects are impaired when you are sleep deprived.” Take measures to ensure you get a good night’s sleep for better health, as sleep is a gift from God. Psalms 4:8 reminds us, “I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, Lord, only makest me dwell in safety.”

8. Laughter – A Stress Reliever

Incorporating Laughter into our lives improves our mood and reduces stress levels. Do not let stress kill your laughter. Laughing strengthens social bonds, increases oxygen to your body, and lowers the risk of heart attack. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 17:22 that Laughter is an excellent medicine for our well-being. Due to the stress of this world, we focus more on everything else than taking the time to laugh more. Savage et al. says, “Laughter is part of a universal language of basic emotions that all humans share. Our feelings interact with the mind and body that impact our health. 

9. Surround Yourself with Positivity

Encourage yourself by Surrounding yourself with positive, encouraging people who uplift and inspire you. The people we surround ourselves with have a significant impact in our lives. We need to be with people who will help us thrive in life. You will have better results when you socialize with people with the same values and morals as you.

Stay away from toxic individuals, as negativity can hinder your progress. Be aware of the people you invite in your life because not everyone has your best interest at heart. People who are not supportive will not be happy with your success. Don’t let those people define your life. Make the choice to encourage yourself by surrounding yourself with people who lift you up and help you reach your goals.

10.  Set Life Goals – Stay Focused

Defining clear life goals will help you stay on track with where you want to go, especially during challenging times. Persistence is the key to pursuing your goals, even when faced with adversity. Don’t give up. Just keep going and stay focused on the goal. Discipline yourself to achieve your dreams. Regardless of what people say, you are stronger than you think. Do not let their discouraging words affect your mental state. Believe in yourself and find the courage to move forward strongly.

Finally, in moments of despair, the key is to keep going and never give up. By incorporating these practices into your life, you can encourage yourself to find strength and resilience. Remember, God loves you, and you can overcome any obstacle with faith and perseverance. Therefore, give yourself grace; you are stronger than you think.

Prayer to Encourage Yourself

Father God, I thank you for your grace and mercy. Please give me the strength to encourage myself in every situation. Please help me realize I’m never alone because you are always beside me. Show me how to stay positive and increase my faith so that I can trust you in all I do. God, please help me be aware of your presence in my life. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen!

Sources:

1. Healthy Sleep – HealthySD.gov. [https://healthysd.gov/healthy-sleep/?left=62&big10=]

2. Cleveland Clinic – Is Laughing Good for You? [https://health.clevelandclinic.org/is-laughing-good-for-you/]

3. Savage, B. M., Lujan, H. L., Thipparthi, R. R., & DiCarlo, S. E. (2017). Humor, Laughter, learning, and health! A brief review. Advances in Physiology Education. https://doi.org/ADV-00030-2017